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  • There Are Better Ways To Get Help – Why Online Therapy Platforms Aren’t All They Claim To Be

    The post critiques online counseling and therapy platforms that promise instant therapist matches and affordability, arguing that genuine therapy is a relational process that cannot be replicated by algorithms. While these services are tempting due to rising mental health issues, they often feature therapists experiencing burnout, and the pay is exceedingly low. The author emphasizes…

  • The Permanent Itch: Therapeutic Reflections on Death Anxiety

    Death anxiety is a pervasive but rarely discussed aspect of human experience, manifesting in health concerns, perfectionism, and avoidance of relationships. Influenced by early life experiences, the instinctual fear of mortality can hinder personal connections and decision-making. To confront this anxiety, exploring literature on death and engaging in therapy can provide understanding and insights. Embracing…

  • Starting Out in Private Practice: 9 Lessons That Have Helped Keep Me Sane(ish)

    Starting in private practice can feel overwhelming and uncertain. It’s essential to embrace the journey and recognize that you don’t need everything figured out to succeed. Focus on building a balanced life rather than just a caseload, establish ethical boundaries, and ensure your fees reflect your needs. Visibility is key in marketing, and finding a…

  • In the Room – Why Face-to-Face Therapy Still Matters

    The text discusses the advantages of face-to-face therapy compared to virtual therapy. While online therapy offers convenience and flexibility, it lacks the nuances of in-person interactions, like body language and the connection fostered in a shared space. Face-to-face sessions provide a safe environment, free from distractions, that encourages deeper engagement and processing. Though not suitable…

  • Sometimes Feel Like You’re Not Fully ‘Here’? It Might be Dissociation…

    Dissociation is a common psychological experience where individuals feel detached from their lives, often triggered by trauma. It manifests on a spectrum, from mild instances like losing focus during a drive to severe feelings of unreality. Symptoms include zoning out, memory gaps, and feeling disconnected. While those affected may seem functioning outwardly, they often face…

  • How Bittersweet It Is To Be A Parent – Travelling the Path to Letting Go

    School holidays often reveal parenting nuances hidden in daily routines. A mother observes her teenage sons deep in conversation, realizing their world no longer centers around her. This realization evokes mixed feelings of pride and grief as she acknowledges the bittersweet nature of raising children. The struggle between joy and sorrow in parenting reflects the…

  • Ever Heard of Matrescence? You Should Have

    The experience of motherhood, often termed “matrescence,” transforms a woman’s identity, leaving her needs overshadowed by those of her baby. Many mothers feel their rights and dignity become irrelevant, as social dynamics shift. Following traumatic childbirth experiences, they may find themselves receiving visits focused on the baby instead of their well-being. This profound transition involves…